695 – How to Stop Being Selfish

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Personal development involves turning inward, taking a look at the self and the many things we do (or don’t do) each day. When we focus too much on ourselves, however, we run the risk of forgetting about the other people in our lives who matter to us. 

If you’ve noticed yourself behaving a bit more selfishly than usual, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to start appreciating those around you more without compromising your personal development journey. 

Here are two reasons why you should listen to the full episode.

  • Learn about the concept of an ego and the role it plays in your interactions with others. 
  • Discover how to start practicing gratitude more in your daily life.

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Episode Highlights

Why is Selfishness Harmful to Our Personal Development Journey?

  • In personal development, we need to develop the ability to see the bigger picture. When we are self-absorbed, we lose that ability.
  • Looking at the world around us helps provide a more sound perspective on our place within society.

What Role Does an Ego Play in Our Lives?

  • Humans are naturally selfish. We have an innate need to survive and look out for our own safety. 
  • The strength of one’s ego can lead people into seeing things as they want rather than taking an objective look at reality.

How Do We Challenge Selfishness?

  • Being grateful for the things we already have, such as sending a thank you note or doing a random act of kindness. 
  • Serving others through volunteering regularly and committing to an organization we feel strongly about. 

5 Powerful Quotes

  • “Focusing on the self enables us to grow who we are when we feel depleted or stuck, but “I” becomes a problem when we let it be the center of our universe.”
  •  “If life were one giant jigsaw puzzle and we only represented one piece of it, too much focus on that single piece means missing out on the bigger picture.”
  • “In order to get the most out of life, we need a keen understanding and consideration for other people.”
  • “The strength of one’s ego can lead people into seeing things as they want them rather than taking an objective look at reality.”
  • “We are all made up of the experiences and people we have come into contact with in our lives.”

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